We Are The Fat Bitch

*this post contains mention of fatphobia and fat hate When I was in 6th grade a beautiful boy kissed me in my neighbor’s backyard. He had a Bulls Starter Jacket and wore so much gel in his hair that…

Fashion Is Political: About The Curvy Con

I would not call myself a fashionista, and clothing definitely isn’t something that makes me wildly excited. But I am excited about the fat community, our determination, and the noise we are currently making, that is slowly but surely…

To My Non-Fat Friends – This Is My Cry For Help

  This week Project Runway winner and unapologetic fatty Ashley Nell Tipton went public with her choice to undergo weight loss surgery. In the past I have talked about fat people’s participation in diet culture and the negative impacts…

Ugh! I’m Dressed Like My Mom!

Last week on facebook, I asked some friends how they would like me to refer to more conservative plus size clothing looks. I some times get requests to show more “mature” plus size clothing styles and this always confuses…

Plus Size On The Prarie

I’m becoming ok with being a Kansas girl. For years, I thought “well, it’s ok if I’m here for now, it’s not my last stop”. It made me feel less naive, less of the person that people judged me…

Posting Update!

Hello love bugs! I just wanted to check in with you and let you know that our posting schedule is going to change just a little bit. As I’ve begun making more YouTube videos, I’ve decided I would like…

Define Flattering

I don’t want to hear it. I know that this dress looks like a sack. I realize that this dress is oversized. This may shock some, but I bought it that way and I really really like it. Not…

Plus Size Boudoir

This is the first time I’ve ever modeled for a professional photographer (excluding my wedding, but I was not modeling!), and god damn what a way to experience having my picture taken!!!! My plus size boudoir shoot was everything…

Fuck Being Healthy

“I don’t care what you look like as long as you’re healthy” We’ve all heard it. Many of us have nodded along in agreement, quietly disengaging from the well-intentioned person saying it. I wonder how many of you stay…

This Valentine’s Day, Sexy Is For Every Body

It’s that time of year, you beautiful babes!!! Happy Valentine’s Day!!! Love is in the air, chocolates are on the shelves, and we’re being inundated with ads all about looking hot for someone else. And what do those ads…